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Libby is a creative soul
who has lusciously sexy thoughts daily, and here she will use this
blog to breathe life into her faboo products, perhaps reminiscing
about a lover, or how she test drove a product, perhaps a misty
poem, you just don't know what's going to show up here.
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Dr. Kitamura's wonder workout for the willy
Dr. Kunio Kitamura is head of the Japan Family Planning Association. He specializes in dealing with issues such as sex, birth control, abortion, puberty worries, sexually transmitted diseases, child-raising (he is a father of five), general gynecology and domestic violence. If he cannot handle directly a problem he has been presented with, he will draw on a wide variety of specialists to provide assistance.
Following a column a few weeks ago when I wrote about how women could tighten up their vaginas, I was swamped with e-mail from readers asking what men could do to get their sex organs in ship-shape condition. This column, I'll tell you how.
Before I do get into the nitty-gritty of powering up the penis, I must state emphatically that simply getting their genitals in prime working order alone is not going to be enough to make men popular with women. As I have mentioned many times in this column, sex is in the mind. Sex is not about the penis, it's about the brain. There's absolutely no need for a man to worry about having a small penis and, conversely, a man should not be delighted just because he's well hung. Whether a woman likes you or not all comes down to how you treat her normally, and your kind, gentle and caring approach to her.
Genital exercises were developed specifically to help post-natal women combat incontinence. There are some men who want to find exercises that will prevent premature ejaculation, but from my point of view, there's no problem with early ejaculation when you consider that sex involves somebody else. By that I mean that anybody who tends to ejaculate soon after penetration should make sure that they have done everything possible to satisfy their partner before they insert. Ejaculation is a problem if it takes too long rather than happening too quickly.
So, having said all that, let's start the lecture on the Kegel exercises. Strengthening of the pelvic floor muscle is the same for men and women. But in the case of men, putting it simply their only option is to harden the muscles in the groin area near the base of the penis. To do this, start by squeezing the anus and counting slowly to eight. Counting slowly to eight once again, slowly relax the muscles. Concentrate on the anus and make sure you are not moving muscles in your lower abdomen region. Move your right hand to your lower abdomen region and check that you are not using the muscles there.
An even simpler method of giving your penis a workout is to get an erection and cover it with a handkerchief, then repeatedly move the penis up and down. The handkerchief should be placed on the penis in the same way you would throw a necktie on a coat hanger, then consciously moved up and down. Once you've got used to this, wet the handkerchief to add some extra weight. Don't overdo it, though, or you could end up with a fractured penis. Of course, the penis has no bones, so it's not possible to have a fracture in the strictest sense of the word, but over-exerting the penis could cause the spongy body to rupture, an occurrence more frequent than you might think. Strengthening the penis is done not simply by continuing to give it a burden to it, but through tightening and loosening the muscles, exercise and rest. And these actions must be repeated at appropriate intervals. There's no need to think too deeply about it, but aim to repeat the exercise about 50 to 100 times every morning.
If you're so worried about premature ejaculation that you want to know an exercise to combat it, then why not try the Stop and Squeeze Method? Firstly, stimulate the penis the way you would as if you were about to masturbate. Continue until you are on the verge of ejaculation, then stop the stimulation, grab hold of the head of the penis by placing your index and middle fingers on the upper side and thumb on the underside and then squeeze firmly for about three or four seconds. Once this has weakened the erection and eliminated the sense that ejaculation is imminent, stimulation can begin again. If your arousal level reaches 100 percent, you'll have no option other than to ejaculate, so keep it at around 80 percent or so. For those with a partner, I recommend the stop-start method. Get the partner to stimulate your penis by hand. When you get arouse to the point of ejaculation, give them a sign to stop, then start over again once the urge to orgasm has subsided. Repeat this four times and ejaculate only after the fourth time. Once you've got used to the method, trying using it during intercourse, with the woman riding on top. I can't guarantee happiness, but I will pray for you to put up a healthy fight. (By Dr. Kunio Kitamura, special to the Mainichi)
Posted: Saturday, May 19, 2007, 22:10:52
Slow Life, Slow Sex:
The spot that gets women saying, 'Oh Gee'
Dr. Kunio Kitamura was born in 1951. He graduated from Jichi Medical School and through his 30 years of research, is now the "voice of Japanese sexuality." Among his many books are "Shiawase no Sex (Happy Sex)," "Piru (The Pill)" and "Karada no Hon (The Body Book)."
For more than three years, I used to do a satellite TV program called "Perfect H," sharing co-hosting duties with Kuniko Yamada, a woman voted eight times the most popular personality in the country, and charismatic adult video star Taka Kato.
It was a very entertaining show that taught viewers and worked under the atmosphere of being able to answer questions people might have been a bit embarrassed to ask.
During the program, Taka and I became embroiled in a war of words about "shiofuki," which literally means "whale spouting" and is the term used in Japanese to describe female ejaculation. Taka has a technique that has made him renowned and given him the moniker of the Shiofuki Expert. He insisted that what women sprout when they do ejaculate was urine. I said it's something different.
Being a bit of a hobby scientist, I decided to look into the matter. I discovered what female ejaculate is, but before I explain that, let me first dispel the myth that it is merely urine. I told Taka that if he thought the ejaculate was urine, he should check its smell and its color. By the time we met for out next recording, Taka had checked and was able to tell me that female ejaculate lacked the ammonia-like chemical smell found in urine and that the color was slightly different. But Taka refused to concede, saying that fresh urine didn't have a chemical smell either. He recommended one of his female co-stars make sure she went to the bathroom and he was still be able to see her ejaculate.
If the bladder is empty, where does female ejaculate come from?
The key lies in the G-Spot, the organ only 60 percent of women are aware of. Medically, the G-Spot is known as the Skene glands. It is located in the vaginal wall and is about the size of a quarter.
The G-Spot is said to perform for women the same role the prostate plays for men. The liquid women ejaculate is actually very close to male semen. The proof lies in scientific analysis of the fluid, which shows that it contains acid phosphatase, an acid also found in prostate fluid. Coming from a place close to the urinary tract makes it appear as though it's urine.
But why can this spot about the size of a quarter sometimes produce quantities of liquid that would surprise even Taka?
A hint to the answer lies in the mammary glands. Sometimes, the breasts are referred to as a milk tank, but actually they're very different to a tank where the flow of liquid from it can be determined by the turn of a faucet. The mammary glands are not always brim full and ready to flow. They're activated by babies sucking on them, which sends a message to the brain to activate the lactating hormone and thus create quantities of breast milk that apparently spring up from nowhere. The same mechanism that makes breast milk "suddenly appear" is also responsible for female ejaculate apparently coming from nowhere.
By stimulating the G-Spot about 3 to 4 centimeters inside the vagina, it creates a fluid emission just as the mammary glands do when they are stimulated. And theses fluids are sent out from the same path as the almost shut off urinary tract, so the ejaculate spurts forth just like water shooting out from a hose suddenly released after it has been blocked for a while. (By Dr. Kunio Kitamura, special to the Mainichi)
Posted: Saturday, May 19, 2007, 22:9:19
The intrigue of the vagina
Heather Little-White, Ph.D., Contributor
When men get together to drink, you can almost be sure that there will be jokes and quips about women. Overheard in a local bar when a group of seasoned rum drinkers were doing a 'round robin' on the question ? 'When you think of woman what first comes to mind' As would be expected, the answers all had sexual connotations in the local jargon. Common among the responses was the slang 'p' word for vagina.
Despite its role in conception, the interior of the vagina has been shrouded with mystery until recently. It was the work of William Masters and Virginia Johnson of the Masters and Johnson Institute in St. Louis, Missouri, that shedlight on a dark situation. Through research, they were able to observe what happened inside the vagina during sexual arousal and intercourse. They arranged for women masturbate to orgasm using an ingenious camera-equipped plastic penis, complete with special cold light to illuminate the mysterious, dark interior.
Lubricate and expand
Masters and Johnson reported that in its normal, unstimulated state the vagina is "a potential rather than an actual space" with its soft walls collapsed together, touching each other. During stimulation in the first stage of the sexual response cycle the vagina starts to lubricate and to expand. Lubrication forms a smooth, glistening covering over the vaginal walls, and is the first physical sign of arousal in women.
As arousal continues, the deepest two-thirds of the vagina blows up almost like a balloon to give a ?tenting? effect, according to Masters and Johnson. The uterus and the cervix slowly pull up, out of harm?s way. If the woman has a retroverted or tipped uterus, the cervix stays in place to be 'battered' by the penis, and sex may eventually become painful. The walls of the vagina also change colour, moving from red to a dark, purplish colour, as result of vasocongestion where blood rushes to the vagina as a result of arousal.
Orgasmic platform
The swelling with blood in the vagina continues the plateau stage of the sexual response cycle to the point where it narrows the vaginal entrance by 50 per cent. As the deeper part of the vagina expands and the outer part narrows this is called the 'orgasmic platform'. Masters and Johnson discovered that this was the area that reacted most dramatically during orgasm. They described the process as "The moment of climax when this whole outer ring begins spasmodically contracting at 0.8-second intervals, anywhere from three to 15 times."
At the highest levels of sexual excitement, Masters and Johnson also found that some women experienced 'super orgasm', with the orgasmic platform exploding into a spastic contraction lasting for two to four seconds, moving downward to the 0.8-second contractions of a normal orgasm.
During the resolution phase of the sexual response cycle, the orgasmic platform drains of blood, the vaginal opening expands and the inner, distended part of the vagina returns to normal. The usual red colour returns in 10 to 15 minutes and the vagina returns to ordinary form. This dramatic process discovered by Masters and Johnson debunks some of the myths that men hold about what actually turns on a woman.
These noted sex researchers claim that one of the greatest misconceptions that men hold about the vagina is that its deep, pounding penetration is what drives women wild during intercourse. The deepest two-thirds of the vagina are practically numb to touch. The research found that the deep vaginal walls have so few internal nerve endings that they are similar to an internal organ. It is the outer third of the vagina and the introitus (vaginal opening, including the lips and clitoris) that are extremely sensitive to touch.
However, sex researchers after Dr. Kinsey's seminal work found that women do find deep vaginal penetration ecstatic, and that it triggers a 'deep' orgasm different from that triggered by clitoral stimulation. Other sex researchers posit that women enjoy the deep muscular orgasmic contractions of the uterus and muscles of the pelvic floor. It is claimed that women miss these sensations when the uterus is removed in a hysterectomy. Others claim that women appear to be responsive to firm pressure on the top front wall of the vagina called the 'G-Spot'.
Vaginas serve the same function for women but they are all different in appearance. The Cherokee Indian name the vagina, tupuli or 'feathered flying serpent' and they believe that the depth and nature of the vagina relate to a woman's entire sexual temperament. For example, a sheep woman has a deep vagina, larger thicker lips with a lower more hooded clitoris. She tends to lubricate heavily and cannot reach orgasm quickly unless she has some heart connection to her partner.
Fanciful writings about cultural interpretations of the vagina demonstrate that each person's body, sexuality and genitalia are unique, and should be celebrated as such by individuals.
Posted: Sunday, March 18, 2007, 18:27:14
Women a mystery to sex scientists
Experts gather to discuss just how much they don't know
http://www.sun-sentinel.com/features/health/chi-0702260136feb26,0,3170925.story?coll=sfla-news-health
By Judy Peres
Tribune staff reporter
February 26, 2007
ORLANDO -- To get an idea of just how much remains unknown about an area that directly affects most people's lives, you need to drop in on the International Society for the Study of Women 's Sexual Health.
Researchers presenting their findings at the society's sixth annual meeting are still trying to figure out which hormones and neurotransmitters make sexual arousal possible, where in the brain orgasm takes place, and which nerves control the genital organs. Much of their work is being done in rats.
"Now we're sticking needles into different parts of the brain," said Dr. Irwin Goldstein, the Boston urologist who founded the multidisciplinary group. "Whatever pharmaceuticals are proven to help ... most likely will work in the central nervous system."
Clinicians, frustrated by the slow pace of sexual science, want effective treatments for patients brave enough to seek help--a small minority.
Although social scientists have been studying women's sexuality for decades, medical science did not become interested until the advent of Viagra in the late 1990s raised the possibility that female sexual problems might be treated by medication.
Viagra, which treats erectile dysfunction by increasing blood flow to the genitals, does not appear to work in women.
In fact, no drug has been approved in the U.S. for the disorder doctors call female sexual dysfunction. That may be understandable, given that experts aren't sure what female sexual dysfunction is--or even if it exists.
The main session on Saturday morning was devoted to the topic, "What Is Sexual Desire and How Do We Know?"
Dr. Stephen Levine, a psychiatrist from Case Western Reserve University, argued that sexual desire feels a lot like sexual arousal, even though diagnostic guidelines distinguish between hypoactive sexual-desire disorder and female sexual-arousal disorder -- and researchers recruit patients suffering from one or the other for separate clinical trials of new drugs.
"Science must measure," Levine said, "so we measure how many times the patient said she had sexual thoughts or desired sex in the last four weeks. But we don't know what we're measuring."
To some members of the society, fearing that women's sexual complaints are being turned into medical illnesses for the convenience of doctors and the economic benefit of Big Pharma, that admission was a breath of fresh air.
"I think it's progress that we can spend two hours in this performance-driven society admitting that maybe we don't know what we're talking about," said Ellen Laan, a psychophysiologist from the University of Amsterdam.
Michael Sand, a sexologist who works in Germany, agreed.
"We don't understand normative, healthy sexuality well enough to make judgments about what's dysfunctional."
Since the 1960s, researchers have operated under a variation of the simple model proposed by William Masters and Virginia Johnson that says the human sexual response starts with desire, progresses through excitement or arousal and ends with orgasm. But experts argued that notion might reflect the experience of men more than women, many of whom don't see orgasm as a goal.
In recent years the field has moved toward a more complicated model based on the observation that many women go into a sexual encounter without being in the mood--perhaps they're seeking intimacy or hoping to please their partner--and may not really want sex until after they become aroused.
But it wasn't until very recently that anyone thought to test those theories by asking women.
Sand, who was awarded a prize for his innovative research, found that 57 percent of women felt a straightforward model best described their sexual experience. The 29 percent who endorsed the more complicated model were more likely to have sexual problems.
That made sense, Sand said, because Masters and Johnson recruited couples who liked sex a lot, while the more complicated model was based on the experiences of women with sexual complaints.
`We need to go back to the drawing board and come up with models that explain why some women have different sexual experiences, find out which models fit which women, so we can serve women more effectively when they have sexual concerns," Sand said.
More than 300 researchers, physicians and therapists attended the four-day conference, which ended Sunday. Among other papers presented:
- Women who were physically active had better orgasms and higher overall satisfaction with sex than their inactive peers, according to a study of 65 women in Austin,Texas. But higher scores on a standard measure of sexual function did not seem to be related to cardio-respiratory level or to body mass index.
- A small group of postmenopausal women who took a single dose of an experimental nasal spray were more excited and had more sex in the next 24 hours than a comparable group who got a placebo. Larger studies of the drug, known as PT-141 or bremelanotide, are ongoing.
- A common antidepressant, bupropion, improved sexual function as well as sleep disturbances, weight gain and other menopausal symptoms in a small, preliminary study from the University of Virginia.
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jperes@tribune.com
Posted: Monday, February 26, 2007, 20:18:41
SPRING Aphrodisiacs in the air....in California
after valentine's day
The air is smelling fresh after valentine's day, from some intense storms that have come through here...in oakland....we just had another 3.4 rockin' earthquake here, about 7 miles under me...lol...must be archangel metatron rearranging my molecular stage......hehe
So, all around here there is night blooming jasmine and lovely magnolia trees blossoming. I hope you are all having a wonderful spring.
I designed some new higher end lovelies, if you want to try anything new, email moi.
meanwhile, have a great weekend.
xoxoxo
Libby
Posted: Friday, February 23, 2007, 18:59:39
Why do guys get sleepy after sex?
By Melinda Wenner
For many women, the correlation between sex and snoring is one of those annoying facts of life: no matter when passionate encounters occur, men always seem to fall asleep immediately afterwards. Dave Zinczenko, the author of Men, Love and Sex: The Complete User Guide For Women, explained the phenomenon to Huffington Post writer Arianna Huffington this way: “Men go to sleep because women don’t turn into a pizza.”
I doubt I am ever going to become a pizza, and I’ll never have the foresight to order one beforehand. So in lieu of a cure, a better explanation will have to do. Although women sometimes feel sleepy after sex, the phenomenon does seem more pronounced in men. What is it, then, that spirals them into the land of nod?
First, the obvious reasons for sex’s somnolent sway: the act frequently takes place at night, in a bed, and is, after all, physically exhausting (often more so for the man than the woman, although this certainly varies). So when sex is over, it’s natural for a guy to feel sleepy.
Secondly, research using positron emission tomography (PET) scans has shown that in order for a person to reach orgasm, a primary requirement is to let go of “all fear and anxiety.” Doing so also tends to be relaxing and might explain the tendency to snooze.
Then there is the biochemistry of the orgasm itself. Research shows that during ejaculation, men release a cocktail of brain chemicals, including norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin, nitric oxide (NO), and the hormone prolactin. The release of prolactin is linked to the feeling of sexual satisfaction, and it also mediates the “recovery time” that men are well aware of—the time a guy must wait before “giving it another go.” Studies have also shown that men deficient in prolactin have faster recovery times.
Prolactin levels are naturally higher during sleep, and animals injected with the chemical become tired immediately. This suggests a strong link between prolactin and sleep, so it’s likely that the hormone’s release during orgasm causes men to feel sleepy.
(Side note: prolactin also explains why men are sleepier after intercourse than after masturbation. For unknown reasons, intercourse orgasms release four times more prolactin than masturbatory orgasms, according to a recent study.)
Oxytocin and vasopressin, two other chemicals released during orgasm, are also associated with sleep. Their release frequently accompanies that of melatonin, the primary hormone that regulates our body clocks. Oxytocin is also thought to reduce stress levels, which again could lead to relaxation and sleepiness.
What about the evolutionary reasons for post-sex sleepiness? This is trickier to explain. Evolutionarily speaking, a man’s primary goal is to produce as many offspring as possible, and sleeping doesn’t exactly help in his quest. But perhaps since he cannot immediately run off with another woman anyway—damn that recovery time!—re-energizing himself via sleep may be the best use of his time.
And although there is conflicting information as to whether women feel sleepy after sex, a woman often falls asleep with the man anyway (or uses it for some key cuddling time), which is good news for him: it means she is not off finding another mate. When the man wakes up and she’s still there, he just might be ready to go again.
It’s also possible that sleepiness is just a “side effect” associated with a more evolutionarily important reason for the release of oxytocin and vasopressin. In addition to being associated with sleep, both chemicals are also intimately involved in what is called “pair bonding,” the social attachment human mates commonly share. The release of these brain chemicals during orgasm heightens feelings of bonding and trust between sexual partners, which may partially explain the link between sex and emotional attachment. This bond is favorable should the couple have a baby, as cooperative child rearing maximizes the young one’s chances for survival.
The bottom line is this: there are many potential biochemical and evolutionary reasons for post-sex sleepiness, some direct and some indirect—but no one has yet pinpointed the exact causes. One thing, however, is certain: we females better get used to it, because it doesn’t look likely to change anytime soon.
I will leave frustrated American women with one final thought: if you are upset at the ubiquity of the post-sex snoring phenomenon, remember that things could be a lot worse. A recent survey of 10,000 English men revealed that 48 percent actually fall asleep during sex.
Talk about coitus interruptus!
Posted: Tuesday, September 26, 2006, 10:53:14
erotic sexy automotive poem for you sexy drivers everywhere....metaphor baby!
ee cummings poem....
she being Brand
-new; and you
know consequently a
little stiff i was
careful of her and (having
thoroughly oiled the universal
joint tested my gas felt of
her radiator made sure her springs were O.
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up, slipped the clutch (and then somehow got into reverse
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her the juice, good
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happy to see how nice she acted right up to
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Posted: Thursday, January 26, 2006, 11:8:2
Connectedness with YOUR lover......expanding orgasm
ripples of ever expanding love & gratitude
Simple and easy to achieve, this lovemaking technique arouses you and your lover to the next levels..on and ever onward....
just get into a rhythm, that pulses together..and drop into a zone deep within yourself...and you will find a reservoir of deep love that is flowing between the two of you that words can never touch.
xoxooxox
emeralds, pearls and diamonds can never hold a candle to this efferevescent and anti-aging practice....pearl tigress, and internal goddess....
L
Posted: Wednesday, January 25, 2006, 16:38:39
Posted by Penguini, on the ROFO, today.....
From St Exupery.....
and st exupery < penguini > 01/24 12:39:49
You are beautiful, but you are empty. One could not die for you. To be sure, an ordinary passerby would think that my rose looked just like you--the rose that belongs to me. But in herself alone she is more important than all the hundreds of you other roses: because it is she that I have watered.
This to me illustrates the essence of SELF LOVE....no one else knows how to counsel you to do anything in your life better than YOU, YOURSELF.........so stay open to YOU as your number one source that springs eternal....
Thanks to Penguini, from Craigslist Romantic Forum......for reminding just how much I love the writings of St Exupery, and THE LITTLE PRINCE in specific.
ahhhhh.........especially if you can read it in french...and dream it in french...
xoxoxoo
blessings, today!
L
Posted: Tuesday, January 24, 2006, 15:52:53
ok, just one more thought.....
ayden...i placed my sacred orange that you whispered prosperity into and that you laughed
with me while i stuck it with cloves tonight....yes, your magickal fruit....
i placed it on my altar and lit my red candle.
*thank you sprite girl for your magick gift*
xoxooxo all for love and openness and beauty...and permission to BE HAPPY
sweet honey! love babay mojo....bring me my epic lover romance please...i am ready, thank you!
3 x 3 x 3, so mote it be, release all the blocks: assist and thrive... energies swirling and flowing artistically, creatively and abundantly, in loving service....
Amen
Posted: Sunday, January 22, 2006, 3:24:18
Guy at party: uh, hi...so what do you do?
Moi:i'm an artist.
Guy at party: You paint?
Moi: yes, i paint, I am a filmmaker, a photographer, i write and i'm a perfumer, of love spells and potions for romance.
Um, No..people never know exactly what I mean.
They sometimes leap to conclusions that would ordinarily be like leaping the Grand Canyon.
k, more later on leaping wide expanses....I recommend it only for really brave souls...
(thoughts random pattern, fibonnacci...perhaps, fractals at the very least)
good night!
Posted: Sunday, January 22, 2006, 3:18:46
Jeffrey's Mad Hatters Party was divine......
Great spirit of Ayden......too
Tonight i tried on a few different outfits for this friend of mine's party, in the city.
At first I put on my Navy lace chanel outfit and that felt too sexual; I was worried about walking around in downtown SF in heels late at night, and also cold freezing temperatures....yikes..
I tried another version with a blk fox headband and boa, but i landed on my father's Stetson, and my newish cowboy boots that i have been breaking in for Sundance next week...that with a camouflage mini skirt over black tights and a cute leather jacket and tee shirt with Robindira Unsworth jewels. I wore my smoky quartz and turquoise collection. *wink wink*....
Jeffrey just moved into this gorgeous loft in the mission area of San Francisco.
I live in a loft and work out of another loft, so it's very interesting to go to another loft...you know, sort of checking out how someone else works with their space, and what they do with it, decorate it, what they decide to put in to the space and leave out...all of that.
Well, it was scrumptious.
thoroughly wonderful, connection back to my inner child, almost with playful spritelike girls in fun costumes and very tall handsome men who actually have interesting things to talk about...ah, just the way i love them......and la la la ...yes!
There was a japanese outdoor garden that you looked out on from the kitchen area.
wolf range in the kitchen, if i saw that right, martha you would be proud (martha stewart that is)...
great little balconies and a lovely boudoir area, as well as touches of detail that kept the dance floor open while creating a room for wonderment, and a dj riser area at a far end....all lit well, and with films playing on all the walls.
note to self:
mini crushes from tonight:
Quentin, who just sold some property in British Columbia, to ..oh it was nice to see Prashanti...it's been years.!...and oyr host, bien sur!!
and met many new friends...had a sweet time seeing Ayden again, always a dyed in the wool Angelic Aromas fan! and prosperity whisperer!
She told me about a magazine in Oakland that she is involved with called Tea Party I believe.
and a sexy persian man walked me to my car.....hmmm, trying to remember his name, he says he is an art director for film, for an ad agency called Publicist, that is a french company. *perk*...how fascinatingly random that he walked me home./oops, i mean to my car...(dr freud will be thrilled there won't he)?
i swear then there was a woman who sang a *pussy* song after smoking a cigar wearing a corset under a blk tie shirt, she was classicly theatrical in demure. she told me she is writing a book on how to sexy your life by using feng shui to build a space...hmmmm, wonder if she helped Jeffrey do his space?
I am now inspired to build my character wardrobe.
ok, maybe i have a good start, but fashion photography is easier when you have props, or clothing and good shoes as the case may be.
Well, sweet dreams, and I liked his party even though it felt a little too Burning Man for my taste.!
*kisses* Jeffrey, thanks for the invite! I'm usually in LA at the California gift show....so this was delightful that I could go for my first time to the 7th annual~~~~
xoxoxoo
L
Posted: Sunday, January 22, 2006, 3:8:16
Ten Reasons Not To Hook Up At Sundance This Year
hehehehh...reposted from my friend CHA CHA
Hi fellow film lovers...for some of us, our annual
trek to Sundance is fast approaching...something for
us to keep in mind once we reach our destination (and
for those of you not joining us, something for you to
fantasize about...)
Top ten reasons not to "hook up" at sundance....
1. bathing becomes "optional" thus leaving more time
for all important line crashing to get into see
films...
2. ditto shaving of body parts (think of the space
you'll save in the carry-on leaving all that personal
hygiene stuff behind...)
3. you can wear that Mork from Ork t-shirt ten days
in a row and nobody will care
4. side benefit of following the above mentioned top
4 is that you will always have open seats on either
side of you while watching films
5. which brings us to: you can actually go to the
festival and watch films instead of partying, hooking
up, and GAD....networking
6. Who needs a hook up when you can simply plug your
handy dandy vibrator into your ipod and experience
"luv for one" in time to the tunes in the privacy of a
darkened theatre???? only $29 sterling direct from
the UK (see the current issue of Harper's for more
product info....)
7. no more worries about "hat" hair....
8. organizers will invite you to the parties to mix
with the glitterati because after all, you must be
SOMEBODY or why else would you dress, smell and behave
like snarky rockstar....CAUTION: SEE #5 and remember
why your at Sundance....
9. You can ask really obnoxious questions at the Q &
A's that the "pretty, suck up to the filmmakers"
people are afreaid to ask...
10. when you slip on the ice and fall on your ass
(and you WILL) no one will care because you cannot
possibly be "anyone of significance" dressed in that
torn mork from ork t, battle-scarred jeans, mom's cast
of plaid rainboots and your sister's leopard-like hat
that would make Dennis Rodman proud....
Posted: Saturday, January 21, 2006, 13:35:18
Joining a Gym, versus Personal Trainer
*socialization?*
I am thinking of joining a gym! It's been a very long time for me...I've been working out with a trainer who also works at The Claremont Resort & Spa....and it has been a year with working out with her....I also work out with a yoga teacher personally who danced with Merce Cunningham in NYC....
I have been blessed with both of these amazing women...and I am considering changing my routine a little bit to add socialization to my schedule...as both my trainer and yoga teacher come to me, and I *DO* need excuses to get out...and socialize.....ahhhhhhhhh....
yeah.....so, that's the latest! thoughts....on self love......pampering
oh, i forgot to tell you
*they have a steam room at the gym*
*grin*
that may just be the REAL reason to create change.
la la la la
Posted: Saturday, January 21, 2006, 13:23:5
Valentine's Day Musings
......from Self Love to Lusty Dates to Doing The Act in a Graceful Yet Provocative Way
Everyone posting in the romantic forum on Craigslist.org these days is split between hating the VDay or possibly dreamily considering *if* they might be asked out...or maybe ask someone out....for the big day. As I mentioned, there is a wide range of reactions as just after the end of the holidays we start to turn our thoughts to little candy hearts and wearing big red bows, new lingerie for a new luvah...as Carrie Bradshaw, from Sex and The City would say......to wild new romances, whether epic or short lived...heck, i am in the mood for some kind of crazy lusty sweep me off my feet kind of sexy emotive dating!!!
So, I tell myself, and I watch the posts go flying by...and what we have is a lusciousness of a new season, developing....whether seen or unseen...it is beginning.the fearless flirtatious season is now in full swing with less than ONE month before the big day! February 14th!!!!......a wednesday!
I have no deep advice other than bathing in WORSHIP ME Bath and using Va Va Vixen to keep the energies open to a new epic romance and start attracting amazing people into your life...
...more about setting intention tomorrow...~
xooxoxo
L
Posted: Thursday, January 19, 2006, 20:0:8
OOooOoOoooooOOOoohhhh LA LA
Hopeless Tease for President!
Dear Hopeless,
Thanks for a year of fun and nurturing posting from you in the Romantic Forum on Craigslist.org...
May you find Epic Romance this year..and keep on bringing us the most amazing delightfully fun postings!
xoxoxoo
L
Thanks a million babe for all your creative help last year on naming our SEX POSITIONS!!!
Posted: Monday, January 2, 2006, 17:18:27
Stormy Sexy Musings at the Luncheon Bar at Balthazar
mmmm........oooh la la, darling!
Nothing is sexier than getting caught in the drizzly windy fall weather in NYC when everyone else and their friend is also getting caught in the rain...after picking up some beautiful new fall and holiday nail polishes at Anna Sui, and some strip tease music at Agent Provocateur, I meandered into Balthazar to have a tete a tete impromtu lunch with a man whose eyes were very penetrating......mmmmm.....yumm!
And maintenant, je suis tres heureuse...et c'est le temps les plus belles!
Time for a petite nappette on the teal velvet sofa before i cab it out to Newark to fly in the windy weather! Hopefully San Francisco is nicer than NYC today....
I'm excited to be coming home.......
xoxoxoox
love...
L
Posted: Thursday, September 29, 2005, 14:52:5
Girls: How to WOW your guy this weekend!!!
Martini PENIS tongue MOVE!!!
Girls, Get your GUY in a vulnerable position,.......he's practically begging for it:::: yes, ahhhhhh, let him lay back, reassure him.........stroke his chest appreciatively, dragging your fingertips over his chest, at the most appropriate pressure...Some like it hot......ooohhh yessss...girls!!!!
then.....get down, low, over the shaft of their penis, and gyrate around very slowly, ALLOWING YOUR LOVER to see you....really see your most erotic nature.......look into his eyes, and feel deeply that your essence is being penetrated by your partner's essence...gaze...touch, insinuation....what's to come next?
hmmmm.......
la la l a laaaa....listening to Vernon Bush..he always brings out the very best in me......
have you heard him yet?
http://www.vernonbush.com
he is as close to Jesus any of us will ever get to in this lifetime!
he is a pure guy...i surrender my heart to Christ around this man....and I know I am not alone..
I consider myself an eclectic worshipper........
love is found on many paths.
and Vernon is 100% LOVE!
xoxoxoxo
Keep on.......I am open, my heart feels open, love, deep, pure life action.........
creativity~
to the max`~
oooh la la...and sexy too!
what a great combination!
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Posted: Sunday, September 4, 2005, 16:50:8
Lap Dancing Lessons!
Hustler Club, SF
...so, I'm taking the SFactor and our class met up at the Hustler Club on Sunday night to give the dancers some great energy and throw dollars at them, and watch them do their amazing pole work.
A girlfriend and I actually had a great time getting lap dance demos from a few hotties..one was a blonde who looked just the 1960's Ursula Andress Bond girl, and she was very generous with great moves, and suggestions on ways to really revvvv up a guys' engine.....the other gal, a redhead dressed in a gorgeous skin tight red slip....no brassiere, purrred in our ears and showed us other delicate amazing wonders....i actually started to melt when i felt that purring in my ear and i was thinking the whole time, that men are so lucky that we care so much to get toned and to learn how to please them visually as well as verbally, and well.....vvvrrrrrrrooooooommmmm....vvvrrrrrrrrooooommmmm, baby..we're going back to have more fun and lessons on a sunday night really soon!
xoxoxo
try it, it's fun....
http://www.sfactor.com
i cannot recommend this enough, girls...it's a great celebration of your sensuality and deep feminine nature......lusciousness! to you all!
Posted: Tuesday, August 30, 2005, 19:30:3
mmmmmmmmmmmm.........kiss...yes for you darling
enjoying the heat of summer and the company of a few good men...........
mmmm......the yummmiest aspect of this moment.............
deep, slow, languished kisses......oooh la la darling!
Hey, see you all in NYC in a few days.....................!!!!!
Love,
POA
xoxoxoxox
Posted: Wednesday, August 3, 2005, 0:12:40
tantric musings on a monday night.......
ooh la la, baby
Are you assured
When we are distanced - that
We'll be together again?
When the seas of you are restless
Demanding storm,
Yearning a new moon of me
To soothe your tides
Begin again...
Are you assured
From a distance - that
We'll be together again?
And when your sun
Lights alien earth
Bruising your eyes;
Your rays bouncing back, unmet -
Are you assured
From a distance - that
We'll be together again?
Do you know
We live in each other's orbit
My earth and moon
Revolve your sun
Your beams root
Green my gravity
And through your light
I see my moon
Knowing this you must be assured
That even when we are distanced
We are together
In the galaxy of us
Revolving on
By Carolyn Kleefield
Posted: Monday, August 1, 2005, 23:47:51
Full Moon Under The Bouganvillea
At The Casbah, Figueroa Hotel
Sitting tonight in the Swirling deep tub in the Casablanca Suite at the Fig.....a custom blend of all my favorite aromas, and some WORSHIP ME bubble bath, GET LUCKY TONIGHT added for bubbles, and delight of spirit...the busy day of sunny hot latin LA wholesale district is still dancing in my mind....
Tried out my one of new wigs at dinner by the pool....to my surprise, the vanilla mist secret potion drink that the bartender makes.....sooothed my spirits as the sun set....
la la la la.....the hot tub and bubbles were just the thing to cap off a perfectly creative day....
colours for fall that i have found today.....coppery bronzes, golds, and deep aubergines
xoxoxo
Love from LA,
L
Posted: Friday, July 22, 2005, 0:45:38
Saturday Morning Ritual
Ferry Plaza Farmers Market
sunny....pretty morning to shop for organic fruits and vegetables at the market.....
sensuality..........in food presentation and clean meals......lalalalalalaa...........ooooh yeah
Posted: Saturday, July 16, 2005, 11:12:2
The Story of Clay and our intimate relationship to it...........and to the earth
from Angeles Arrien's new book, THE SECOND HALF OF LIFE....OPENING THE EIGHT GATES OF WISDOM
This is from an ancient Roman myth.......
As care was crossing a shallow river, she picked up some wet clay and began to give it shape, meditating on what she had created. She took the clay from the body of Earth and asked Jupiter to give it spirit. Care wanted to give this new being her name. But Jupiter and Earth each claimed their right to the name. Saturn, father of Jupiter, settled the dispute by saying the name would be HOMO since it was made from clay, humus or earth. At death, Earth would receive the body, and Jupiter the spirit. However, the new being would belong to Care during its lifetime, for it was she who had first shaped it.
Like the clay with which care worked, our concept of the body at the Clay Gate changes and shift, and new forms emerge. At this gate in our later years, we are called upon to embrace self care as our relationship to intimacy, sensuality and sexuality changes...........
blessings to all those lovers who have helped shape my path of loving, intimacy, sensuality, pleasure and passionate playful expression. As the author John Nichols once wrote in a secret love letter in Taos, NM to a friend of mine...and i am paraphrasing....here:
*If i lie down with you...I hope all your lovers were good ones and your heat just keeps burning...
everyone you have been with has just added to who you are as a lover, get lost in the heat....and feel the pulse.*
xoxoxo
POA (Priestess of Alchemy...
did you see the waxing moon out tonight?
pretty....ooooh la la, baby!!
Posted: Friday, July 15, 2005, 0:33:52
ONLY BREATH
Rumi
Not Christian or Jew or Muslim, not Hindu,
Buddhist, sufi, or zen. Not any religion
or cultural system. i am not from the EAST
or the WEST, not out of the ocean or up
from the ground, not natural or ethereal, not
composed of elements at all. I do not exist,
am not an entity in this world or the next,
did not descend from Adam and Eve or any
origin story. My place is placeless, a trace
of the traceless. Neither body or soul.
I belong to the beloved, have seen the two
worlds as one and that one call to and know,
first, last, outer, inner, only that
breath breathing human being.
Posted: Tuesday, July 12, 2005, 14:34:59
Self Love: New Spring Beginnings
Love After Love .... a poem by Derek Walcott
The time will come
When, with elation,
You will greet yourself arriving
At your own door, in your own mirror,
And each will smile at the other's welcome.
And say, sit here, Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
To itself, to the stranger who has loved you.
All your life, whom you ignored
For another, who knows you by heart.
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,
The photographs, the desperate notes,
Peel your image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.
....and so we begin...at the very center of our PUSSY....energy...deep within the beauty of our self love......i recommend a spring cleansing ritual to get in touch with yourself.....
you may want to perform this Spring Cleansing SELF LOVE Ritual during the upcoming New Moon, and full eclipse......April 8th..........yesssssssss!
Your potions...Worship Me Bubble Bath, Va Va Vixen, Breast Caress....and Pop My Cherry ...la la la la la !!!
heheeheheh......ok, start by drawing your hot bath....and wash with Worship Me.....and circular motions to stimulate and excite your circulation! Then apply the two body oils...Va Va & Breast Caress......mmmmmm..soak! babay!!
Apres............cover in a long terry towel and a lovely robe!
Pop My cherry is an edible sex lube...which you can apply onto your clit and self pleasure yourself..in the season of cherry blossoms...be sweet and open, and luscious
sleep, dream, remember your dream.......
ahhhhh....you worship yourself often to keep your pulse deep and yummy!
xoxoxoxo
Priestess of Alchemy
(POA)
Posted: Friday, March 25, 2005, 14:12:30
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